Is Manifesting a Specific Person Wrong?
There are so many fear-based ideas in the LOA community about manifesting a specific person that warn of the dangers and wrongdoing. People apply a shallow understanding of the law to a vast concept, and bring in limiting ideas preconceived from religion or finite human ethics.
The thing is, these concepts don’t apply to the infinite law.
But many of these myths persist, and cause many new manifestors to stop in their tracks. Instead of growing to realize their power and live their ideal life in every area, they hear or read these fear-based ideas, and they wilt in place.
We can’t allow ourselves to wilt in place; it is our duty as divine beings to grow and to thrive.
Is it possible to manifest a specific person?
Firstly, it is absolutely possible to manifest a specific person. I’ve done it time and time again:
An SP Success Story (+Getting Rid of a Third Party)
How I Quickly Got Rid of the Third Party
An SP (Specific Pet) Success Story (a specific pet in this one, but same application)
You might find people who will tell you that manifesting a specific person is impossible, but this is not the case. The truth is, however, that it can be difficult for a lot of people and feel “big” because we as humans often have a lot of feelings, attachments, and insecurities when it comes to specific people. That can make it something of a journey, but that doesn’t make it impossible.
The idea that manifesting a specific person doesn’t work comes from a shallow understanding of the great law that is the law of attraction or law of assumption. You might find people in the LOA community that will tell you that the law can’t give you a specific person, and that anyone getting a specific person after deciding on it simply got hit with coincidence.
Doesn’t this sound like something someone would say if they didn’t believe in the law at all? Call it coincidence, no matter how uncanny and how often it happens?
Meanwhile, doers of the word put it to the test. We dive in to the existential truths that the law of attraction brings with it. We find not just techniques, but we come to understand who we are. We read, study, and most of all test it ourselves.
After testing the law time and time again, I can tell you that manifesting a specific person is possible, as are other highly specific manifestations.
Neville Goddard would quote the bible:
I can do all things through christ who strengthens me.
Philippians 4:13
Does manifesting a specific person harm free will?
A common myth in the LOA community is the idea of free will. The truth on a spiritual level is that free will is a clever illusion.
We do not impose on the free will of others when we manifest a specific person. What we are doing only effects ourselves.
You see, the way manifesting works is not about bending your current reality to get what you want, or sending out high vibes that then ricochet off the universe and “attract” in what you want. What you’re doing when you manifest something is far more amazing.
Manifesting is not bending the universe to your will. It is selecting a pre-existing universe from a vast network of realities, and aligning with it. What this means for SP manifestations is that we are not beating down our SP’s free will; we are entering a reality where they are ours.
The original SP, the one who didn’t notice you, didn’t want you, or broke up with you, still exists somewhere out there, unaltered. But you choose to occupy the version of you that has their SP’s love.
If this is a new idea to you, I’d recommend reading How to Understand the Multiverse of Manifestation, which explains the multiverse concept in manifesting in more detail.
But the bottom line is, we can literally do no harm when manifesting, because all things already exist. Existence is complete. Any universe that we can convince ourselves is real, we may occupy and experience.
In this way, free will is, on a spiritual level, a non-issue. When you manifest a specific person, you do no harm to anyone.
Does manifesting a specific person cause bad karma?
It’s also important when studying the law to appreciate terms like “karma,” for their true meaning.
Karma is a term originally from Hinduism. While it literally means “action,” in Sanskrit, it specifically refers to the cycle of causality that links our actions to spiritual or ethical consequences, most commonly rebirth or reincarnation.
There are versions of karma throughout many different spiritual teachings, but it doesn’t really have a direct application within the law of attraction, and especially not the law of assumption.
That said, it’s easy to link the cause-and-effect concept of karma to the mainstream version of the law of attraction, which teaches that “vibrations” are what bring about physical manifestations based on what we think about. I can certainly see why subscribers of the “high vibe” mentality would get lines crossed into the concept of karma.
But the law is greater than that, as we’ve already spoken about. You can do no harm when manifesting good things for yourself, because you are only effecting yourself.
So, if the concept of an ethical cause-and-effect is worrisome, those worries can be laid to rest.
Manifesting a specific person does not bring about bad karma.
Is manifesting a specific person bad?
I am hopeful that, in reading the rest of this post, you understand that manifesting a specific person is not bad or wrong. Manifesting a specific person is loving, transformative, and an exercise of our divine birthright of the physical experience that pleases us.
We do not twist our specific persons to our will, we simply align with a version of them that already desires the same things. We lovingly bid farewell to the version of them that isn’t compatible with our desires, and welcome in the reality where they are already exactly as we need them to be.
Manifesting a specific person simply allows you to live in your most desired version of your relationship with your SP, and alters nothing from the reality you came from. In this way, no manifestation can be bad or wrong, as all things already exist.
We do not change others, we only change ourselves.